You like what you like when it comes to women, and that’s fine. As long as you’re happy, you can date one blue-eyed, adventurous fitness addict after another and nothing’s wrong with that. If you find yourself getting bored, however, what started as a preference has turned into a rut. If you’re looking to put the spice back in your love life you need to rethink the type of woman you’re seeing. Pick someone you usually wouldn’t and enjoy something different. This will make things easy.
Online Dating Makes Type Easy to Assess
If you usually date women who have a lot in common with you, don’t worry. It’s very common. You meet these women at the places you go. She likes the same coffee shop, bookstore, or has the same friends that you do. If you want to break this pattern you should change where you meet women. Online dating offers you a lot more options than you’d ever find in real life. It also makes it easy to figure out if a woman is your type or not.
Profiles offer a snapshot of a woman’s life. You find her hobbies, interests, and education level right in one place. If she’s good looking but not otherwise your type you know that you have a possible lead.
Pick Someone with Hobbies You Don’t Like
The best way to learn to like something is to have someone attractive show you it. If you don’t think of yourself as the windsurfing type, to pick a random example, then the best way to try it is to have a gorgeous woman show you the ropes. That way even if you don’t like it at the end of the day, at least you got a good show. If you feel stuck in a rut then finding someone who likes to do things that you don’t like to do or have never tried is the push you need to get out of it. You might still hate the things that you hate, but isn’t a good, strong hatred better than a boring monotony?
Make the Five Date Bet
Things are going to get worse before they get better. Dating someone who’s not your type, doing activities you don’t know if you’ll enjoy doesn’t sound pleasant. This is like a course of medicine. When you get to the end your rut will be gone and you’ll be able to see what was really attractive about your type or your activities all along. To make sure you take the full dose of medicine you have to keep going out. Think of something you want and have been saving up to afford. Then tack on the additional qualification that you have to go on five dates with women who aren’t your type before you can buy it. If these dates are with the same woman you get bonus points. Still, one date with five different women will get you there just the same.