When you start hooking up with women on a regular basis, something you might want to keep in mind is that a more relaxed a woman is, the more comfortable she will be with having sex. The more comfortable she is with having sex, the better the sex will be because she will become more responsive to you. One of the best ways to make a woman relaxed is by setting a sensual, intimate mood before you start getting intimate with each other. The more ways you find to do this, the more satisfying the sex will end up being, so it’s in your best interest to try and foster a sensual mood.
Set the Mood with A Romantic Atmosphere
You don’t want to go overboard with the romantic decorations and make it look like you’re trying to set the room on fire with candles, but you should put an effort into making things as romantic as possible. A good way to do this is by carefully adjusting the light level in the room. If you don’t have a dimmer switch on any of your lights, candles will be a good replacement. Turn the lights off and light some candles to provide a dimly lit, sensual atmosphere to the room. Scented candle are good only if you know what kind of scents won’t be too overpowering. You don’t want to ruin the mood with a nasty smelling room, after all, so be careful with what you choose. Make sure the temperature in the room is just right, too. You don’t want it to be too hot or too cold – either can easily ruin the mood.
Offer Her a Massage
Massages are a great way to make a woman relax and also offer an intimate and sensual experience that will get the mood going like nothing else. You don’t even need to be particularly good at it, but if you get some good scented massage oils and rub her shoulders and back a little bit, she’s sure to turn into butter in your hands. A massage combined with the intimate setting will be sure to get her turned on like nothing else, so this is a step you should really try to emphasize and focus on.
Have a Few Drinks and Turn Up Some Music
If you have good music on hand to play during your time with your hookup, you should always play it. Start with the music playing softly in the background so she can decide if she likes it or not, and if she seems into it, turn it up. Meanwhile you may want to pop open a bottle of wine and have a glass or two-just enough for the both of you to relax, unwind, and really enjoy yourselves. If she doesn’t like wine, you can always offer a different beverage, but remember that the aim is not to get smashed, just pleasantly relaxed and buzzed. Don’t let the music get too loud, and don’t let the wine flow too freely.