When you start to meet and hook up with women, you want to be prepared so that things will go smoothly. Nobody wants to schedule a hook up or have a one night stand only for it to wind up going poorly because you weren’t properly prepared. The best way to make sure that a hookup goes off without a hitch is to plan ahead to make sure you have everything ready, and you have any supplies you might need for the night. This way, there shouldn’t be any awkward pauses or interruptions when you get things started, so your hookup should go off without a hitch.
Have Everything You Need on Hand
You should obviously have condoms on hand whenever you plan on hooking up, no matter what other protection the woman you’re hooking up with may be on. It is always better to be safe than sorry. Beyond that, you should have whatever other items you need with you or at the ready so that you can reach them with relative ease during the hookup. You should always at least have some kind of lube on hand even if you do not think that you will need it. Besides that, keep a few fairly vanilla sex toys if you plan on having the hookup in your own home. This way you can always get a bit creative in bed if the mood strikes instead of being forced to stick to the basics.
Have the Location Decided and Ready
It is important to know exactly where you want to meet up to have the hook up, and you should both agree on where to meet. Motels will work fine, but your own home or her place is always the better choice as far as comfort goes. Motel or hotel rooms are usually well stocked, but they just are not as comfortable as your own residence. A woman will feel more comfortable in her own home than yours, but she might not be willing to let you into her own space, so you should discuss it beforehand to know what the both of you want and are comfortable with. Once you decide on a location, you need to prepare it if it’s your home or a hotel room that you arrive at first. Make sure everything is as clean and comfortable as possible, and if you want, make sure that there are plenty of refreshments available if you want to take a break between rounds.
Try not to go into a one night stand or hookup with a specific plan for what you want to do. Let things flow naturally between the two of you once you get started. You don’t want to over think sex, so trying to plan something out will usually not work out well for you. Relax and enjoy yourself and be flexible if she wants to try something new, or if she doesn’t want to do something you thought you were going to get to try.