Getting What You Want: Email Communication

Unsurprisingly, a lot of guys out there get cold feet when it comes to those first few e-mail communications. We’ve been there, so we understand, but seriously–you just have to bite the bullet and get into it. You aren’t going to be able to talk to these ladies any other way until you really get things going.

Focus on her profile.

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The important thing to remember about your first contact with women–and yes, this applies to all online dating sites–is that you never should remark too heavily on their physical appearance.

The kinds of physical things you can chat about in your first e-mail are her smile, her hair, or her eyes. Otherwise, avoid conversations about how great her boobs look in that bikini.

Once you’ve gotten past that hump, talk about her interests. By doing so, you’ll always be able to reel her in and get her to keep chatting with you long after that first e-mail.

Don’t forget the hook.

The ‘hook’ of your e-mail should be the way you get a woman to reply to you. It can be a question, or a remark about her profile that prompts her to tell you more.

No matter what it is, it’s incredibly important to include this. We always do this while doing our sex dating site reviews, and we know that it really helps us get a lot more in the response department.

For example:

“Hi, Marianne. I couldn’t help but notice your gorgeous smile, which is what brought me into your profile in the first place. From there, though, I kept reading and saw that you were a surfing addict. I really love to surf, too, and if you’re ever in town in the future and would like to hit the waves together, I’m always up for someone to have fun with!”

As you can see, there’s a compliment, a reference to her interests, and a hook that brings it all together.

This is how you really get ladies interested.

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By sending these kinds of e-mails, you’re also guaranteeing against being an assumed sex dating site scam. You sound authentic and interested, and that’s what these women really want.

It’s important to remember not to be too pushy in your e-mails. If she doesn’t respond at first, we highly recommend giving her at least a week before sending her anything else.

You have no idea what is going on in her life, and that’s why you should never try and hassle her for any sort of reply. She might have had an emergency come up, or she might just be plain busy.

Be patient.

It’s not all going to happen over night. No matter how good our tips are, you can’t speed things along that need to be handled with care too much, and honestly, if she replies way too quickly, it might just come off as desperate.

It’s also important to be open and honest whenever she finally does e-mail you back. If she has questions, don’t avoid them. While it’s okay to tell a little white lie about things like your job, be honest about the things that really count when it comes to hookups.

All in all, there’s no reason to be afraid about your first communications with women online. Just relax, take a deep breath, and be yourself. The more fun you can have with these e-mails, the better. She’s going to notice the difference, and it’s going to get you laid more often.

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