Following Up After the Date

It’s important to remember that follow-up is a thing that happens after your hookup…assuming you actually want to see her again. If you’re using a legit sex dating site, then you don’t want to be the guy that drops ladies like a sack of potatoes once you’ve had sex with them, so make sure to follow a few basic levels of protocol.

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Just don’t be too aggressive about it.

If you had a good time, then it’s generally a good idea to send her a text about 24 hours after you hooked up with her, thanking her for the good time and letting her know that she was wonderful.

Even if you’re using a free sex dating site or a cheap sex dating site, this is the kind of thing that you need to do. Women want to know that the evening was well-appreciated, and honestly, it’s just the right thing to do.

You shouldn’t ask for another date in this text. You need to give her time on her own end to respond to you first, and continue to cultivate your relationship before you hookup with her again.

Don’t harass her.

If she doesn’t respond right away, that’s fine. Give her another two or three days and then feel free to shoot her an e-mail or a private message making sure that she’s okay.

At this point, it’s really not the best form to call her. A lot of guys might feel tempted to do this, but we recommend against it. You’ll just end up opening a can of worms that you really don’t want to deal with.

If you wait a week and she still doesn’t respond, it’s honestly just time to move on. Maybe she didn’t enjoy herself, or maybe something just happened. Whatever the case, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Don’t get hung up on her.

The biggest mistake we see guys making when it comes to online hookups is just not knowing when to let go. You really don’t want to be the clingy, desperate guy that just keeps trying to call his sole hookup back.

If you end up with that kind of reputation, there isn’t anyone out there that’s going to want to see you. That’s why you just have to be laid back, and be willing to try out different ladies in general.

That being said, you’re not going to always end up in a situation where women don’t return your texts. Most women that have a good time are going to talk to you again, so don’t fret.

When she does contact you again, don’t be too eager.

Again, it’s not in good form to immediately ask for another date. If you do that, it’s going to make you sound desperate, and that’s really not the sort of thing you want to portray.

In general, it’s a good idea to wait another week before you start asking her about possibly meeting up again. Obviously, it’s up to her if she’s into that, and if she is, then you’re in for a treat.

Once you have a regular hookup, you really need to start taking thorough notes. You should have jotted her down in your little black book to begin with, but from this point on, you can really have some detailed data on her that changes the whole scope of your hookup.


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